17.8.10

Live from Atlanta:

One last peck around the yard before moving to their new home at Don and Emily's

Holy Cow. That was the hardest thing I've ever done in my life. Worse than wedding-planning and birthing children. Emotional and physical exhaustion like I have never known. But the worst of it (I think, I hope) is behind us.

I think I can now call myself an expert in stealth packing. Two days before we moved our house was in showing condition. That made for about two hours of sleep the night before we left, but it payed off when we signed a contract for sale literally 10 minutes before we hit the road.

It's all a blur now, but a few things stand out: Kathleen scrubbing cabinets like her life depended on it and ducking into the bathroom to cry. Eric bringing Marley home from Kim's, bathed, fed and wearing Aubrey's PJ's. Eric S. drenched in sweat and swearing up and down that he loves helping people move. Russ's breakfast fit for a king. Ann showing up out of nowhere and cleaning the oven. Becky calling "I love you" over her shoulder. Clint taking our picture on the front porch. Pam folding the load of laundry I didn't have time to dry. Crying into Lindsay's voicemail while driving down 85. My wedding dress on the seat next to me. Watching Mustang lay his head in Marley's lap in the rear-view mirror.

I kept my eye's locked on that yellow moving truck carrying my three boys and everything I own for 7 1/2 hours. We finally arrived to an eager crowd of young men from church ready to move us in. Our new neighbors took the kids to their house for pizza and cartoons. Jeff, Eric's old hall-mate from Duke, brought pastries and stayed until midnight putting together our beds. We slept the sleep of the dead.

The next day the landlady needed to come in the house for something while we were out returning the truck. I thought our house on Shady Lane was small, but this house is smaller. She called later to ask, in all seriousness, if we could really fit everything in, and to assure me that if not, she would not mind us breaking our lease. I tried to convey, in as non-hysterical a voice as I could muster, that I was not budging from this house for at least two years, I don't care if I have to take everything I own, including my Grandmother's fine china, to Goodwill. Just kidding- I don't have my Grandmother's fine china- luckily she's still using it- but you get the picture.

Two weeks later I'm amazed at how our things have taken to this little, old, quirky house. With a lot of purging, a little maneuvering and liberal use of the attic, we fit perfectly. I'm learning how to manage without a garbage disposal and getting used to the 8:00 school start-time. I can get myself to Publix, the train station and Ikea. Oh, Ikea, how I've missed you!

The neighborhood is unreal. The only way I can describe it is to say is that at 5:30, moms start knocking on doors looking for their kids. My little house alternates between sleepy silence and a cacophony of popsicle-wielding children, overexcited golden retriever and no-longer-napping baby. One day last week the four-year-old from next door came over while no one was here and watched Finding Nemo for an hour while I cleaned floors.

Mustang survived his initiation to city life: a close brush with a tractor trailer while running along busy Ponce de Leon. Marley and I stay busy during the day organizing (and un-organizing) the house, while Eric thinks deep mathematical thoughts and goes for barefoot runs on his lunch break at the Fed.

My heart is still aching for everything we left behind, but I think that maybe we can make this work...

6 comments:

Elise said...

Wish we could have been among the many who have supported you through this move. Congrats on the wonderful community of your new neighborhood, and kudos on getting your place into your kind of shape. Wish we could drop by for a chat and playdate!

Lindsay said...

Oh, how I miss you guys, Katie! I can't wait to see where you guys live, so I think I'll just go ahead and drive down today instead of waiting for two weeks. :) I bet your boys fit right in to that neighborhood. It sounds perfect for them. And you - you're so social that I bet you love a more open door policy. I'm so glad that things are starting to settle a little bit.

Oh, and don't worry, I didn't cut my bangs. I haven't done anything to my hair for a LONG time...I think it probably just looks like it in that picture because of the movement. :)

E B said...

I'm so glad you sold the house! That's terrific! And got so much help with both ends of the move! And are getting settled and adjusted so quickly! Even if it doesn't seem quick to you. Your new neighborhood sounds great. Shoot me your address when you have a chance, please.

s g said...

congrats on another move...and boy is it hard to move on, but it looks like you are in a great community and already feeling the benefits of that.

kudos to you and your great attitude :) best of luck in the months to come!

Kathleen said...

So glad that your house sold and that you made it safe and sound . . . we'll have to get together soon!

team howey said...

WOW Katie! I am so glad you sound encouraged! That is worth a lot in your book.

Congrats on selling the house and welcome back to a city. I think you can nestle into your lifestyle pretty quickly...I know you're a city girl at heart. :)

But seriously? 8:00 AM? Does that mean the world is going to stop turning? I didn't think you and 8:00 AM would ever meet!

love ya! All the best to the fam. come out for Thanksgiving. Please. Pretty please.